The combination of detailed descriptions by abused women and great dramatizations helps both male and female viewers to understand the realities of spousal abuse, what motivates this kind of activity, and reveals the myths that surround it. Low self-esteem, rather than straight anger, is the central causal issue and the ability to quit habitual spousal abuse is as problematic as recovery from any other addiction.

*Includes Guide
*Closed Captioned

*Also available in French
*Part of a series of six videos on spousal abuse and domestic violence well known for excellent and compelling dramatization and production values. See also...WHAT ABOUT US?...SEEN BUT NOT HEARD...RIGHT FROM THE START...TIME TO CHANGE and IT'S NOT LIKE I HIT HER!!!